According to
http://www.csd.net/~cgadd/aqua/art_plant_nutrient.htm , I'm almost certain is must be phosphorus that I'm missing. I don't want to get to complicated into the testing of my water, at the moment anyway, I usually try to approach things simply. I went ahead and ordered some small bottles of Flourish (NPK, trace,iron, and the original, not expensive at all really), I'm hoping to see some improvement. The picture of my Anubias Nana in this thread:
http://www.petfish.net/forum/index.php/topic,69526.0.html It seems like its showing text books signs of P deficiency, although it seems to have some sort of algae on it

I guess I'll have to do some experiments and figure out my water slowly, or else go out and get the test kits for this stuff (as far as I know phosphate is pretty cheap, I saw it in the store for like $7 bucks, I hitting myself in the head as to why I didn't buy it. I was so focused on finding some sort of good fertilizer, I didn't even really look at the other stuff.
I've read that phosphorus generally comes from fish waste (?), in this case I only have 3 fish in my 55g (pleco, and 2 angelfish) and tons of plants. Possibly the tank having so few inhabitants and so many plants is the main cause of the issue. I don't know, I'm just guessing here

. I just know my plants are not growing like they used to and I want to fix it.
As a matter of fact, I've barely have any sort of algae growth (other then the fit of green water a little while back, who knows). So I doubt I have many excess nutrients that are causing issues.
My mind is boggled

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